

Now let me clarify, I didn't really have any desire at all to read these books, but somehow I found myself reading Twilight, which is by far the most addictive and in my opinion, the best book of the series. Since it was part of a series, I had to read the next book (because I have this weird need to read complete series, not just one or two books). New Moon still had tons of drama, but for some reason, I didn't enjoy the storyline as much. By the third book of Eclipse, I was still reading the books almost straight through, but I felt the author was stretching too much. I honestly would have stopped, but I'd already invested so much time in the series that I just went ahead and read the concluding book. That one was even more of a stretch, but at the least some of the relationships 'normalized.'
Relationships normalized? What the heck does that mean? Well, the portrayal of relationships in these books is my main concern with them. Usually when young adult and even children's books containing magic and vampires and the like appear on the scene, many adults express concern over what our youth are reading; meddling with the supernatural, even though it may be fiction, can be dangerous. When vampires are the particular subject matter, most would assume that there is more sexual innuendos and discussions than what is appropriate for youth. In the Twilight Saga, there are some scenes dealing with sexual matters, though not as much as I would have expected. There are also some violent portrayals and imagery, but the most concerning aspect of these novels is the relationships between the main characters. Edward and Bella's relationship is in the deepest sense possessive and obsessive. The entire novel focuses on how they cannot live, cannot function without one another- that indeed, life is not worth living if they are not with the other one. This is not a healthy relationship, girls! Now, I know that I realize this and most adults are going to realize how unhealthy this relationship truly is...but do the young teenagers who are nothing short of obsessed with Edward realize and understand this concept? When what these young girls understand of love is what is seen on TV, in movies, and in books like these, no wonder these girls feel disappointed when they don't experience 'love' the way that Hollywood and the media portrays it. The interesting twist to this issue is that these young girls see what the media defines as 'love' as reality, and yet the content in the books and movies and television shows are often so sexually explicit that they begin to lose their innocence at such a young age. I pray that if I am ever a mother to daughters that I would be able to teach them about reality without forcing them to give up their most precious innocence.
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Wow, if Twilight is the best of the series, then I don't feel like I am missing out at all by not reading the other ones! I read it just a few weeks ago and really found it to be not only dreadfully written but also so melodramatic that at times it was downright obnoxious. I completely agree with your take on Edward and Bella's relationship; it is completely unhealthy and not at all the kind of example young girls need! I watched the movie to see if perhaps it was better, but I should have known that wasn't possible. :) I am still not sure if I will read the others. I am curious to see how it all plays out, but I am not sure if that's worthy spending the time reading the books or if I'd be better off looking up a summary of each book on Wikipedia. :)
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